4 January 2026
Have you ever found yourself thinking, "I just can't do this"? Maybe you've struggled with math, learning a new language, or even mastering a challenging skill. It's frustrating, right? But what if I told you there's a small but mighty word that can completely change how you see challenges? That word is "yet."
The phrase "I can't do this" becomes "I can't do this… yet." Sounds simple, but this slight change in mindset can make a world of difference. Welcome to the power of yet and the growth mindset—a game-changer for personal and academic success.

On the other hand, a fixed mindset is the belief that your intelligence and abilities are static—you either have a talent for something or you don't. People with this mindset tend to avoid challenges, fear failure, and give up easily.
It turns failures into stepping stones. Instead of seeing struggles as roadblocks, a growth mindset helps you recognize that every challenge is an opportunity to improve.
Think of it like leveling up in a video game. You don’t start as an expert—you work through challenges, learn new strategies, and get better with practice.

- ❌ "I'm not good at this."
- ❌ "I'm terrible at math."
- ❌ "I'll never understand this."
Try:
- ✅ "I'm not good at this yet, but I can improve!"
- ✅ "Math is hard, but I can get better with practice."
- ✅ "I don’t understand this now, but I will if I keep trying."
Think about Thomas Edison, who tried over 1,000 times before inventing the light bulb. When asked about his failures, he said, "I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won’t work." Now that's a growth mindset!
Think of your comfort zone like a small box. The more you stretch yourself, the bigger that box gets!
Instead of saying:
- ❌ "You're so smart!"
Try:
- ✅ "I love how hard you worked on this!"
This reinforces the idea that hard work, not just natural talent, leads to success.
- Challenges you faced
- How you tackled them
- What you learned
- How you can improve next time
Reflection helps track growth and reminds you of how far you’ve come!
- Encouraging mistakes as learning experiences
- Using phrases like "You don't understand this yet, but you will"
- Praising effort and persistence over just intelligence
- Sharing stories of famous failures turned success (like Michael Jordan or J.K. Rowling)
- Creating a positive learning environment where challenges are welcomed, not feared
So, the next time you struggle with something, pause and remind yourself: I can’t do this… yet!
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Monica O`Neal
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2 comments
Nico Gates
Embracing challenges with a growth mindset? Please, it’s time to stop whining and start winning. Remember, 'yet' is just the glitter on your learning journey. Sparkle on!
February 11, 2026 at 3:53 AM
Monica O`Neal
Thank you for your inspiring comment! Embracing the "yet" truly transforms challenges into opportunities for growth. Let's keep sparkling on our learning journeys!
Chloe McCoy
This article beautifully highlights the importance of a growth mindset. Embracing the concept of "yet" encourages resilience and fosters a love for learning. It's a valuable reminder that challenges are opportunities for growth. Thank you for sharing this inspiring perspective!
January 12, 2026 at 7:59 PM
Monica O`Neal
Thank you for your thoughtful comments! I'm glad you found the article inspiring and resonated with the power of a growth mindset.